Beloved Local Counselor Who Helped Others Stay Sober Killed by Drunk Driver Near Laytonville

Sally Ann Teegarden
Sally Ann Teegarden spent decades helping others find clarity, healing, and sobriety. On Monday afternoon, her life was cut short by the very thing she worked to prevent: a drunk driver.
According to a press release from the California Highway Patrol Garberville Office, the crash occurred on July 21 around 2:40 p.m. on U.S. Highway 101 near milepost 76 in northern Mendocino County. Forty-three-year-old Justino William Faenzi-Glass was driving a Porsche Macan northbound with two juveniles in the car when he crossed the double yellow lines and collided head-on with Teegarden’s white Honda CRV. She was pronounced dead at the scene. Faenzi-Glass was arrested for gross vehicular manslaughter while intoxicated (PC 191.5(a)), felony DUI causing injury (VC 23153(f)), and child endangerment (PC 273a(a)).
The juveniles in the car were unharmed and released to a relative. Faenzi-Glass was booked into the Mendocino County Jail.
Teegarden, age 74, was well known throughout Southern Humboldt and Northern Mendocino for her decades as a counselor, where she specialized in helping others overcome substance abuse but she was also well known for marriage counseling and more. She called herself a “personal growth counselor,” and was a recovering alcoholic who had been sober for nearly 37 years her partner Mitch Peirson told us.
“She was like the wisest person I’ve ever met,” said Emily Brady, a former client. “She was just incredibly calm and patient and an incredible mentor and asked great questions. One of the things she said when I first met her is she’s gonna teach me listen to my own voice and be the guide to…my own wisdom. … She really did help lead me to the answers within myself when I was struggling with things. She also had a fantastic humor…We would laugh at like, you know, ludicrous things in life…There was both this incredible depth and incredible… joy and levity.”
The loss feels especially personal here at Redheaded Blackbelt. Staff reporter Lisa Music was a longtime client of Sally Teegarden and credits her with helping save her marriage. “Sally is the reason why my husband and I are about to celebrate 25 years together,” Lisa said. “We walked into her office barely speaking, on the edge of divorce, struggling to navigate everything life was throwing at us.”
Sally’s guidance extended far beyond relationship advice. “She counseled us through the death of parents, the loss of a child—through some of the hardest moments of our lives. Sally may have known us better than anyone.” Lisa recalled joking that she’d start making house calls to Sally’s Mendocino home after her retirement, unwilling to give up the insight and care that had become a cornerstone of her life. “Her gift,” she said, “was in seeing you clearly, meeting you exactly where you were, and gently walking with you toward the person you wanted to become.”
Teegarden’s partner of nearly 40 years, Mitch Peirson, said she had been on her way to an appointment in Laytonville when the collision happened. He hadn’t been able to hug her goodbye that morning—he was covered in poison oak and didn’t want to give it to her. “I didn’t get to hug her, which was…terrible,” he said. “Sally was the love of my life.”
Peirson said he learned of the crash in a harrowing way. He, too, was headed south on Highway 101 later that day. “I had gotten in that line [of backed-up traffic]… turned around, came back home, and waited till I knew the highway was really moving.” He finally drove by the scene and saw the white Honda but not its license plate, he feared the worst. “I pulled off the highway and started walking back down… A CHP [officer] came over. I said, ‘I’m really worried that that’s my wife’s car.’ He asked my name, and he said, ‘She didn’t make it.’”
For years, Sally kept a small counseling office in Garberville—first near the cemetery and later in Redway—meeting with clients three days a week. “People come up to me and say, ‘Your wife helped me so much,’ and I don’t even know who they are,” Peirson said. “She was really kind. Really, really fucking kind. Always willing to help anybody.”
She was also intensely private and spiritual, he said, with a deep connection to her land near Grapevine Creek, and an affinity for animals—once keeping 13 cats and a black lab named Coltrane, who followed her up the hill with the feline entourage trailing behind. Now she leaves a dog and one cat to navigate their quiet home without her.
In her younger years, she studied at Antioch College in Ohio, where she earned a degree in natural science and psychology. Later, she became a certified drug and alcohol counselor, working at the Laytonville clinic and on local radio with a brief stint on a show called Recovery on the Radio.
“She always tried to help people,” Peirson said. “She loved her family… loved her animals. We had a good life.” Then he added, “She had the best smile on the planet…And she snored. I can’t sleep now. It is too fucking quiet.”
Plans are underway for a memorial gathering. “We will have a service,” Peirson said. “Not a service—that sounds too religious…a memorial…So the people she helped can come.”
Earlier: Man Arrested in Alleged DUI Near Laytonville Yesterday That Left One Dead
Note: An earlier version was missing two paragraphs through a mistake on my part~Kym
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This is so sad and heartbreaking. I feel for her husband and the community who lost a great person . Just so sad that the very thing she fought for and helped so many is the very thing that killed her. R IP Sweet Lady.
At AA we learn that all Alcoholics who get sober and stay sober, are obliged to counsel sobriety and assist other Alcoholics…
I am deeply saddened by this loss…
I went to Sally about 15 yrs ago for marriage counseling. Everybody in the recovery community of SoHum knew Sally. She will be missed
What a beautiful human. I’m very sorry for her husband.
One of our founding fathers of AA Bill Wilson quoted that our purpose in life is to be spiritually fit and to be of maximum service to other people.. Sounds like she absolutely not only did that but live that. I’ve been clean and sober coming up on 26 years, although I never met her my heart is sad by the loss of this beautiful person. My deepest condolences, May her legacy live on forever!
In a flighting second the times had changed, but the memories will live on forever.
What a cruel injustice to Sally, her spouse, and the greater community that her honorable life of sobriety, recovery, and service to others was concluded so abruptly and violently by someone obviously in the clutches of substance abuse.
Alcohol is the devil among us and by my witness is out to destroy everything good, near and dear.
This is heartbreaking news and no condolences can justify or salve this unfair end. 💔 So sorry.
Don’t blame alcohol.This is purely a human caused tragedy.
Helps what a lot? Truth?
I’m sorry to hear that you feel that way and that you felt the need to make excuses for a dangerous addictive substance here.
What makes you think I need your permission to feel what I feel or speak what I know?
Alcohol was the reported catalyst in a tragedy that took the life of a woman who spent hers helping others escape its grip!
To make excuses for booze here is to spit on Sally’s life’s work.
I’m not sure what you’re defending—or why—but if naming the root of this tragedy makes you uncomfortable, I can’t help you. Imo, arguing the implication of EtOH in a fatal drunk driving accident is offensive and frankly, pedantic.
By my witness, alcohol destroys many wonderful and precious things.
So you held a gun to the driver’s head and forced him to drink? Maybe he was sober and texting…..those evil devil phones made him do it?
Maybe he was sober and texting…???
Are YOU drunk? The man was arrested for felony DUI, vehicular manslaughter and child endangerment. (“Faenzi-Glass was determined to be Driving Under the Influence and was placed under arrest for 23153(f) VC, 191.5(a) PC, 273a(a) PC.”)
Since you won’t let it rest, I will explain, that -just like your gross attempt to hijack this thread with your thoughtless defenses- alcohol literally hijacks the brain/nervous system of the addict. They drink. That what alcoholics do! Without anyone “putting a gun to their head” and to the horrifying detriment of themselves, and everyone around them, they drink!
If Sally were watching, she’d probably roll her eyes, shake her head, and say, “Textbook deflection. This guy’s not ready yet.”
To flippantly argue that “It’s not the alcohol, it’s the person” denies the power of addiction….as if alcohol is just an innocent bystander that coincidentally keeps showing up at crash scenes. 🙄
As I understand it, he was not drunk but instead on Opioids. Not that this will bring Sally back, but this time it wasn’t alcohol.
Actually. None of these comments are true. He was NOT drunk. He was NOT on opioids. Some of you eat up false information like nothing. This was a tragic accident that my 6 year old was in & had to explain to me what happened. So before you go bashing someone maybe check your facts first. He didn’t even have his phone in his hand at the time of incident. It was just a freak accident that happened.
OMFG SALLY! Terrible news for our communities. Mitch I’m sorry for your loss. Godspeed Sally. 💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️
The irony is heavy, saddening. RIP Ms. Teagarden.
Oh no! She was my counselor for a while. She always was so caring and kind. What a tragedy. Many blessings to her on her way and to her loved ones💜🕯️
Sally was my counselor at Singing Trees 30 years ago, and an essential part of my recovery. I tried to find her on line only a couple of months ago, to tell her I’m still sober, and that I re-trained to be a family therapist and SA counselor to pass along the gift she’d given me. How many times I found myself repeating the same advice you had given me! I owe SO much to you Sally – thank you. Daniel
OMG! Me jaw just hit the floor! Shocking. RIP. Condolences to the grieving.
First, I must say I am humbled by the tributes and blessings sent out to Ms. Teegarden and her partner. In times like these, it is so easy to initially lash out at the person responsible for the tragedy (as well as putting his children’s lives in danger)…and rightfully so.
But, we are so inundated with negativity, constant negativity, and it weights so heavy on the heart. The outpouring of love, respect, and remembrance of a positive soul who touched the lives of so many and gave so selflessly is a reminder that there is still light. Much respect to this online community, and sending endless well wishes and love to Ms. Teegarden’s family.
Perhaps someone reading about this event will be moved by the letters expressing the sadness of loss, and the appreciation of the positive changes to their lives helped by this person, and make a positive change to their own behavior.
Been a while since I got teared up on here. Heartbreaking in every way. I’m not one to give condolences on here, but I’m so sorry for her husband and everyone she helped. As someone in recovery I truly wish I’d known her
Thank you for sharing the gift of recovery with me while I was in singing trees all those years ago and helping me stay in the program with your wisdom. I was truly blessed to know you. I’ll miss you but I have your voice in my head and heart. Thank you! Sending love and prayers to your family as well 💔❣💖
That is so sad breaks my heart to read that story . Drinking and driving is so f@&$ing horrible gosh what a horrible thing she sounds like a great human being and my condolences to her partner of 40 years and her family and what a loss to this community just heartbreaking 😢
I thought it was alcohol until I read other article but either way it’s still horrible and sad