20-Year-Old Suspect Sought in Stabbing Death of Roommate

This is a press release from the Eureka Police Department. The information has not been proven in a court of law and any individuals described should be presumed innocent until proven guilty:

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Destinee Grace Rhamy [Driver’s license photo provided by EPD]

On August 2, 2023, at about 6:37 p.m., Officers with the Eureka Police Department (EPD) responded to the 100 block of W. Sonoma Street in response to a 911 call of a physical altercation. Responding officers discovered 27-year old Holland Elbik experiencing medical distress inside her home. Officers and medical personnel from Humboldt Bay Fire and City Ambulance attempted lifesaving measures, unfortunately, Elbik died at the hospital. Officers determined she had sustained multiple injuries as a result of a physical altercation between Elbik, a roommate, Destinee Rhamy, and a male friend of Rhamy. The EPD has conducted an in-depth investigation of the incident and has determined Holland Elbik was stabbed to death during the altercation.The EPD has secured an arrest warrant for Destinee Grace Rhamy of Eureka, in connection with the homicide. Rhamy is described as a 20-year old white female, approximately 5’6” tall, medium build, with dark hair and blue eyes.If you see Rhamy, or know of her whereabouts, please call the Eureka Police Department immediately at 707-441-4044 or dial 9-1-1. Do not attempt to contact or apprehend Rhamy as she is considered armed and dangerous.

Anyone with information regarding this incident is asked to contact Detective Ray Nunez at 707-441-4109.

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Destinee Grace Rhamy [Body-worn camera image provided by EPD]

Earlier: Two Transported to Hospital After Reported Stabbing in Eureka

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Giant Squirrel
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Giant Squirrel
2 years ago

What gets into these kids these days?

burblestein
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burblestein
2 years ago
Reply to  Giant Squirrel

In this case it was a knife…repeatedly.

Delli125
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Delli125
2 years ago
Reply to  burblestein

Not repeatedly this article Is bullshit.

Kym Kemp
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2 years ago
Reply to  Delli125

This isn’t an article. It’s a press release from law enforcement. If you have information to the contrary, please contact them.

Delli125
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Delli125
2 years ago
Reply to  Kym Kemp

They Failed To Mention That She called 911 for help because that’s what they said to do from the last incident and that the phone was ripped out of her hands and thrown down the stairs or that the male was stabbed in the neck with a broken tea cup not just once not twice but 3 times and multiple times in both arms…

Nurse
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Nurse
2 years ago
Reply to  Giant Squirrel

Drugs and/or alcohol literally get into them.

Thatguyinarcata
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Thatguyinarcata
2 years ago
Reply to  Giant Squirrel

This is nothing new. The current homicide rate is not significantly out of line with national rates going back to the 50s. The 70s, 80s, and 90s, saw significantly higher homicide rates

Bozo
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Bozo
2 years ago

LEO had her… and let her go ? Or is the photo of a previous encounter with LEO ?

Read it again.
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Read it again.
2 years ago
Reply to  Bozo

It says it is a drivers license photo and a camera photo. Not a booking photo or picture taken by EPD. Perhaps they hadn’t developed enough information at the time to arrest her.

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Lol
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Lol
2 years ago
Reply to  Read it again.

Read it again ? yeah read it again! It’s a photo from a body cam provided by EPD pretty sure E stands for eureka the P stands for police and the D stands for department so yeah they let her go!!

Or...
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Or...
2 years ago
Reply to  Lol

You do understand it’s possible the body worn cam could have been from a previous incident before the homicide even happened right?

crap
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crap
2 years ago
Reply to  Bozo

Could be from a previous interaction with her. Could be they did not have enough to arrest her. Who knows and does it really matter?

Dogbiter
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Dogbiter
2 years ago

What about the ‘male friend’? Cops looking for him too?

MJ
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MJ
2 years ago
Reply to  Dogbiter

good question, they didn’t mention his name or whether they are also looking for him. sound like they should be.

Jean Lopez
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Jean Lopez
2 years ago

We don’t know the circumstances, of course, but there could be so many possible situations here. A love triangle, a failed business deal, or something as simple as “Don’t use my stuff” being repeatedly ignored. I remember myself 40 years ago shaking with rage, in an absolute fury with a housemate and seriously struggling with the urge to do physical violence to her. She was a very sick young woman and was literally taunting me to go ahead and hit her. Something I would never do, but nevertheless I grabbed my purse and fled from the house until I cooled off. I think drugs, alcohol and a society that subtly and not so subtly condones violence have moved the goal posts.

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Boffin
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2 years ago
Reply to  Jean Lopez

Since the US violent crime rate was far higher 40 years ago do you mean we’ve moved the goalposts to a better place?

Volunteer fire fighter
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Volunteer fire fighter
2 years ago
Reply to  Jean Lopez

I told you 15 times to stay out of my corn flakes!!

Self Control
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Self Control
2 years ago
Reply to  Jean Lopez

Thanks for not killing her!

havenrich
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2 years ago

Almost two months to figure out a stabbing death? Two pictures don’t match well? What about the male? Doesn’t pass the smell test…

Gary Whittaker
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Gary Whittaker
2 years ago

Maybe the victim merely fell onto the knife multiple times.

Past resident
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Past resident
2 years ago

What ever happened to that Destinee Rhamy or the boyfriend? searched online and found nothing? Is she still sitting jail? was there a trail? Murderer turned loose? ????