Bernadette Webster: Productive and Optimistic Through It All

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Bernadette Webster
June 5, 1950 – March 15, 2024

Bernadette was born into a working-class catholic family in Port Angeles, Washington on JUNE 10TH, 1950. Her older siblings, Burke and Alicia, and her younger sister, Mary, were always close and kind to each other. Her sheltered childhood provided a solid base for stability, hard work and love of nature. She remembered her Irish grandmother being a fountain of love. She remembered playing in the woods in empty lots and spending time at the family resort at Lake Crescent. She loved running just for the pure joy of it. She experienced much of her life through her emotions. She began taking pre-veterinary classes but got very ill and never went back to school.

When she was nineteen, she set off on a long hitch-hiking trip across the western US. She spent a winter working and living in Minneapolis with friends. When she was hitching hiking, she would sleep in graveyards because she felt safe. When cars would stop to pick her up, her kitten would jump off her shoulder into the car which would win over the occupants. 

Don Edwards picked her up hitch hiking and she ended helping him find a farm to buy and stayed on Chemise Mtn Farm with him for twenty-five years of an inequitable relationship. They homesteaded and raised show goats. They had an orchard and large gardens. Her animal husbandry came in handy many times especially when cougars caused damage. The farm remained off grid with kerosine lamps and gravity flow water.

On May 1st, 1973 her first child, Blossom, was born. She was delivered at home by her father because the midwives were late. The Madrone trees were in full blossom that day. Their second child, Logan, was born on May 26th,1981 and was delivered by his dad because the labor was only one hour. 

She became an integral and loved part of the community in the Humboldt culture. She was involved in volunteer work in local politics. She took declarations from homeless people who were harassed and discriminated against. She also worked for years on litigation against Operation Greensweep. 

In 2012 she married Jack Glick in Mendocino and lived a happy life with him in Whale Gulch. Logan and his wife, Ashley, had three children; Lukas, Parker and Connor who she adored and spent as much time as she could with. She spent years suffering from cancer but confounding doctors when she would bounce back from near death episodes. Jack died over a year before she did. She was with him when he passed, and Logan was one of the first responders to show up. 

She loved to travel and would regularly go up the Oregon coast and make her way over to spend time with her other grandchildren Noa, Rio, and Jessica. 

She was so ill and yet she was as productive and as optimistic as possible. Although she lived alone, she was surrounded by those that loved her and was able to say goodbye to her family before she passed. She did not appear to be afraid, but seemed to embrace the ultimate liberation. She passed in Eureka Ca on March 15, 2024

Her family will be holding a celebration of life Saturday June 8th 1:00 at Beginnings in Briceland Ca

The main course and drinks will be provided. Potluck for appetizers, sides and desserts.

 

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Ben Round
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Ben Round
2 years ago

She was a gem. A strong woman, who was to me always gentle of nature yet strong in her positions and her commitments. She values Justice. She had a wonderful dry sense of humor. Always easy to laugh and to have a deep conversation with, about matters of the day/ time.
Bernadette was another of the strong people, the back to the landers, who made the So Hum community remarkable, creative and capable.
Thanks for all your work and your gentle playfulness, Bernadette!

spamned
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spamned
2 years ago

Goodbye Bernadette

It was a pleasure to know ya~

John
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John
2 years ago

It’s these people who were born in the early-fifties, in high school during the late-sixties, who’re starting to pass. Pretty soon it’s going to be my people, the ones born in the late fifties, in high school during the mid-seventies who’ll be. Tempus fuggit.

farfromputin
Member
2 years ago

The Southern Humboldt women are amazing! Sorry for your loss dear family and friends.

I am a robot
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I am a robot
2 years ago

The use of the word “inequitable” in this context confuses me.

What is the literal meaning of inequitable?
not equitable; unjust

Anon
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Anon
2 years ago
Reply to  I am a robot

I was thinking same. Typo likely

Ben Round
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Ben Round
2 years ago
Reply to  Anon

Noticed that too. The one thing in the obit that seemed inequitable. I saw Don and Bernadette in a positive way. Kym, can you help explain if it’s a typo?

Lisa Music
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2 years ago
Reply to  Ben Round

The obit was posted as sent to us.

Richard Finch
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Richard Finch
2 years ago

Was she the Bernadette who bred goats? I concur with I am a robot about the use of the word inequitable (“twenty-five years of an inequitable relationship”). It seems a strange thing to read in a memorial like this. The word means “unfair, prejudiced, biased, one-sided” (Collins Dictionary).

farfromputin
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2 years ago
Reply to  Richard Finch

This is not a high school English class and no one is being graded for their posts.

Richard Finch
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Richard Finch
2 years ago
Reply to  farfromputin

So you believe that the use of this word to describe a relationship she was involved in was intentional? If so, it seems a rather nasty dig to use in a memorial/obituary.

Dman
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Dman
2 years ago

Met Bern and Jack a few decades ago, whenever I made it down to the gulch (a few times each year), they would let me stay in their cozy cabin, behind their beautiful redwood house overlooking the Pacific.

Bern had a green thumb, I was always amazed at the variety of plants and flowers growing either on the deck or in the garden. She was an amazing cook, whipping up healthy delicious food seemingly almost effortlessly. She was quite the conversationalist, it was always a pleasure hanging out with her.

She always treated me with loving kindness and respect; I will miss her. Her body is gone, but her spirit will live on in Whale Gulch forever.

farfromputin
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2 years ago
Reply to  Dman

Nice.

anon
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anon
2 years ago

Bernadette was a wonderful woman who loved her kids a lot. I am so happy for her that she got to see her grandkids grow up, and that she found a loving partner with Jack. She was an avid gardener, and amazing cook of food around the world.